the effect

I am sure that anyone who comes to this page would want to know why I gave this blog the name the effect? Simple....have any of you ever met a woman who made you speechless...well I have but the truth of the matter is that it was not me that was left speechless...it was many a person that came across this same woman. I have since been dating this woman and many a time I came close to what I define as the effect. The effect is that unexplainable thing that attracts men to women or women to men ...that unexplained thing which makes you buy a shirt over anothe..what the french call 'un certain Je ne sais quoi"...My girlfriend says shouldnt call her the effect because I have the effect too on women....how true that is I dont know but I do know out there somebody got it..